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Carolyn Smagalski
Self-Confidence
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Did you ever try to do something tough? I'm
not just referring to doing a load of laundry, Fellas! I am
talking about doing something that takes persistence and
drive, over a long period of time, to see it through. Things
like: getting your first book published; building a
successful business from the beginning; raising children to be
responsible contributions to society; establishing yourself as
an expert in a niche market.
Enthusiasm is the fire that keeps the burn going. Excitement
about your vision! Clarity of your big picture!
Your
thought process needs to be constantly replenished in order to
keep the enthusiasm going. If you create the habit of
replenishment, however, your enthusiasm will become the muscle
behind all your actions.
The
oft-quoted Arland Gilbert said, "What a man accomplishes in a
day depends upon the way in which he approaches his tasks.
When we accept tough jobs as a challenge...and wade into them
with joy and enthusiasm, miracles can happen. When we do our
work with a dynamic conquering spirit, we get things done."
Develop
strategies to keep your level of enthusiasm high. Treat
yourself well, both physically and mentally. "Friendship with
oneself is all-important, because without it one cannot be
friends with anyone else," said American stateswoman and First
Lady, Eleanor Roosevelt.
Ways to
keep enthusiasm fired-up:
1.
Define your purpose. "Make no little plans! They have no
magic to stir men’s blood," wrote Daniel Burnham, 19th-century
Chicago architect.
2.
Believe in yourself. Keep a journal of your accomplishments,
both large and small. Add one accomplishment each day. You
may have been taking yourself for granted. Solitary
self-applause is good for the spirit.
3.
Create a list of definite plans, with time limitations. For
example, Ernest Hemingway made a daily word count on a
chalkboard, Dave Eggers hits his goal of 3,000 words per week
in Salon, a pre-owned auto sales man may target three
sales per week, etc.
4. Gain
accurate knowledge in your field of expertise. Read trade
publications, peruse the advertising sections of your target
group to learn what matters most to them, be alert to the
details.
5. Work
to gain the cooperation of others who can assist you toward
your goal. I recently read Homer Hickman's fascinating
article that spawned October Sky. Hickman is one of
the original "Rocket Boys." Of the folks of Coalwood, West
Virginia, Hickman wrote, "At least a hundred miners and their
families were on hand for the launch of Auk XXXI, each with a
tale of how they had helped us in some way." Others want
to help!
6.
Focus on your target. Resist the temptation to get
sidetracked. Keep a journal for new ideas that come up along
the way. Write them down for future action.
7.
Habitually practice enthusiasm. Interpret ongoing
circumstances with up-beat attitudes. Be dynamic. Smile
often. Picture the end-result with clarity.
In the
words of T. E. Lawrence: "All men dream: but not equally.
Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds
wake in the day to find that it was vanity: but the dreamers
of the day are dangerous men, for they may act out their dream
with open eyes, to make it possible."
Go ahead...fire it up!
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